Highlights from Each Speaker/Class
Keynote: Tony Schwartz
● Investment
in saving your energy – working too many hours every day is not healthy. Balance is key.
● We
need to refuel as we exercise mentally and physically.
● Balance
is a key point of everything. Even for
your personal strengths – if we overuse confidence it becomes arrogance.
● It’s
important to state that the way we are working isn’t working. We need to change the way we work to improve
that.
● One
of the golden rules of triggers is that when you’re angry, whatever you feel
like you want to do – don’t. That gives
you space to think about what the other person is feeling and not only what you
are irritated about.
● Sprints
of 90 minutes of work followed by 20 minutes of rest.
● You
can only have 4 hours of high impact work per day.
● Try
to sleep 7 hours of sleep or more.
● When
you evaluate your strengths, consider these to have more empathy for the other
person: What else may be true here? What else am I missing?
● See
more, exclude less.
● Acknowledge
the bad qualities we have, accept them, try to improve them. Don’t cover them. Look for the opposite positive quality.
● Care
is the cure.
● Self-care
makes care for others possible.
● The
best leader is the one who holds opposites most gracefully. They expand their capacity to hold
paradoxical opposites.
Keynote: Simon Sinek
● It’s
not the people, it’s the environment.
● The
leaders are the ones that create the environment.
● A
safe environment is very important.
Leaders must create a safe environment.
We need to create a community of openness and build off each other.
● Be
the leader you wish you had. Each of us
needs to take ownership and be that person.
● If
you feel your leader cares about you, you are inspired to follow their
lead.
● Sometimes
we invest a lot of energy into items that may be needed “just in case”. That can take a lot of energy that could be
focused into initiatives.
● Consistency
is way more important than intensity.
You can’t work out for 9 hours one day and see results. You can work out for 10 minutes every day and
see results.
● We
need a vision and clear goal.
Keynote: Bob Chapman from Barry Wehmiller
● 10
keys to a people-centric culture:
1.
Begin every day with a focus on the lives you touch.
2.
Leadership is the stewardship of the lives entrusted to
you.
3.
Embrace leadership practices that send people home each
day safe, healthy, and fulfilled.
4.
Align all actions to an inspirational vision of a
better future.
5.
Trust is the foundation of all relationships – act
accordingly.
6.
Look for the goodness in people and recognize and
celebrate daily.
7.
Ask no more or less of anyone than you would of your
own child.
8.
Lead with a clear sense of grounded optimism.
9.
Recognize and flex to the uniqueness of everyone.
10. Always
measure success by the way you touch the lives of people.
● His
approach was very simple. Loved
that.
● Treat
everyone as someone’s precious child.
● The
most important thing to do is to listen with care and empathy.
● Leading
is like parenting. Children are
different. You have to customize your
approach for each individual. One size
does not fit all.
● Why
can’t business be fun? Find that element
of fun.
● Ordinary
people can do extraordinary things.
● Make
sure you have a safe bus with a skilled driver.
Don’t care so much about having skilled passengers. We need to train the best drivers.
● Care
and trust in people.
Keynote: Melissa Reiff (Container
Store)
● We
need to improve communications a lot. We need to anticipate how the listener
will react to what we say and adjust our communications accordingly. Be sure the message is received and produces
a positive outcome.
● Think
about speaking and other’s feelings.
● Communications
should be consistent, reliable, predictable, effective, thoughtful,
compassionate, and courteous.
● 15
characteristics of a leader.
1.
Security – Know you deserve to be seen as who you
are. Have the security to see the best
in others.
2.
Confidence – Ability to dig deep and not be
intimidated. Humility.
3.
Positive attitude – Make the choice to be happy.
4.
Maturity – Life isn’t the way it’s supposed to be – it
is the way it is. The way you cope with
it makes the difference. Listen, learn,
and then react.
5.
Focus – The ability to zero in and focus on one
thing. Prioritize accurately.
6.
Courage – Never be afraid to show vulnerability. Work hard to understand and figure out how to
bring others with you.
7.
Sweet – Sincere, thoughtful, generous at heart. Put others first. Be caring enough to connect with different
types of personalities.
8.
Communication – Open, transparent, caring enough to be
thoughtful with approach. Anything can
be solved with dedication to communication.
9.
Tenacity – Never give up. Take responsibility whenever
you have the opportunity to do so.
10. Humor
– One of the brightest lights in lie.
Never forget to laugh. Laugh with
others. Be adventuresome. “Laughter is an instant vacation.” –Milton
Borough
11. Agility
– keeps us alert and nimble. Challenges
us to be strong/on edge.
Trailblazer.
12. Creativity
– Ignites our passion. Keeps us
youthful.
13. Commitment
– Without it we sit in limbo. One of
real dangers in life is lack of commitment.
As soon as we commit, the universe conspires to assist you.
14. Inspiration
– One of the greatest gifts can give self and others.
15. Passion
– For life and all you do.
● LISTENING
is important in communication. Don’t
talk at people, talk with them.
● How
she managed at the time of the recession – monthly calls with each office to
give reassurance, transparency. Good
approach if we have issues that we run into.
● There
are no surprises. People feel safe,
secure, and warm.
● Laughter
is an instant vacation.
Tony Schwartz: Self Care and Caring for Others: Fueling Capacity in a World
of Overwhelming Demand
● You
will have more demands through time but will not have more capacity to meet
those demands and already feel overwhelmed.
You have to work smarter in terms of energy. Make sure you balance the cycles by
recharging to increase amount of energy.
● The
spiritual energy has nothing to do with God – is about self care – creating
boundaries and take back your life. If
you don’t put boundaries, you cannot take care of the others.
Everybody Matters: The Only Business Case with Truly Unlimited Potential
(by Barry-Wehmiller’s Chief People Officer)
● Ask
team members – how can I reduce your frustration?
● Make
the vision clear to employees. People
need something to believe in.
● The
culture is made by the direct supervisor, not the CEO. Anytime the associate has a problem, you need
to ask what is happening and give them an opportunity to give you
feedback.
● A
scoreboard is important. What are the
metrics and how close are they to achieving them? Some positions have no idea
what winning means. Give them a sense of
being able to win.
● We
need to invest time in our team. That is
our main job.
Empowering the Creator Mindset: How
the Best Lead Through Change
● There
are three are un-resourceful mindsets: victim, persecutor, rescuer. We can change these mindsets into resourceful
ones – creator, challenger, coach. When
you change, you inspire the others to change.
● This
toolset helps you learn to be self-aware.
Helps you to switch to the resourceful mindsets. You can’t control others but can be aware and
adjust your approach. Ex: a coach asks
questions, a challenger makes statement.
● Escaping
the drama triangle (insert picture).
This is a good way to resolve conflict.
Unleashing Creativity by Jump
● Don’t
look at something and make assumptions.
Look at it and identify the need before you go directly to a
solution.
● Give
them the verb. Let them find the
noun.
● Create
a culture of feedback – talk when things go right not just when they go
wrong.
● By
looking at the need first you step back and don’t do the job of your team. By giving the solution, you put your team in
a box and kill the creativity. This
makes you more aware that you may stop creativity in the team by giving them
the solution rather than identifying the need.
● Ex: Give requirements but don’t tell me how to do
it. Your team’s solution will be better
than the one you come up with.
● Sometimes
the reason is the solution as well. Keep
asking why until you get to the root.
● When
we talk about projects, make sure we are aiming for a need before we aim to a
solution.
● You
don’t have to stick to the past – think of new ideas. What worked in the past won’t necessarily
work in the future.
● Ex:
Sony Walkman / iPod. Same creative guy
from Sony pitched idea to them. Their
creator had passed and there was a lack of innovation. He took the idea to Apple and the iPod was
born. Huge opportunity missed by Sony.
● Right
now a lot of our visionary energy comes from one person. As Sony can attest to, that is not a
sustainable model. We need to embrace
this and figure out how to allow and unleash our teams so we come to
identifying needs in marketplace and for clients. Let the team create the solutions. It will bubble up from within. We need to identify the vehicle where we can
bring those needs to the table.
The Power of Purpose (Haley Rushing)
● Diagram
– your purpose is the intersection of your passion, strengths, and meaningful
impact. It can’t be a purpose unless it
has all three of these things.
● (Raj
also talked about that the purpose has to have a healing.)
Selling with a Noble Purpose
● 3
questions to guide you to defining purpose:
o How
do you make a difference?
o How
are you different than your competitors?
o On
your best day, what do you love about your job?
● Picture
the customer in the room when you draft this.
● This
noble purpose will create balance between each team’s needs – equilibrium.
Conscious Engagement
● Recognize
people/attitudes you like.
● Send
weekly needs of encouragement.
● Create
courses.
● Spend
time with at least one employee per week.
● Recruit
employees to social events.
● Sheet
of activities where you can add points – people with higher marks get
award/recognize.
● Organize
events for family and friends.
● Individual
program retreats.
● Volunteer
program – organize activities to encourage giving back.
o The
team really wants to get involved in volunteering.
o Use
working hours.
o Look
at companies that already have programs like this to build from.
o Use
our strengths to help make a difference.
o People
can radically participate.
o
When we do give, it’s something that relates to
what we do. It helps to bring what we do
into the world to add value into other people’s lives. Related to our purpose.
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